Moms and CEOs
Generally, moms in the household run the show.
The other day during one of my training sessions with my training group, we were discussing how it's the moms who run the household.
(We're all women in the group.)
There were certain theories about that.
No one could point to the real reason why.
Or, we just all couldn't agree on the best answer.
My theory is based on the different brains that men and women have.
(Or if one person's brain is more female than male.)
It's all about the neurology of the person.
It's well known that women's brains use more synapses that cross the hemispheres.
When men use their brains, there are fewer synapses crossing the hemispheres, and more synapses in just one side.
Which leads me to my theory about women doing more jobs.
We have what is called 'diffuse awareness'.
Men are single-focused.
Jobs and activities at home on the domestic front are often chaotic, and there's a plethora of things to do and to get done.
Kids are running around everywhere.
Laundry needs to get done.
The cat needs to be fed.
Dinner needs to be prepared (what the hell do I cook for dinner tonight).
And the list goes on and on.
Women are generally better are assessing and tackling these jobs at the same time.
Men need to do one thing at a time.
Of course, I'm generalising, but ask any woman and most of the time, she'll explain that she's the one who manages the household.
I don't even bother telling my husband what's happening until the morning of.
And when the kids are on a school break, I tell him,
"Oh, by the way honey, it's half-term."
He looks at me with big open eyes like it's fresh news to him and he had no idea, let alone was it even on his radar of need-to-know-knowledge,
"Oh? Is it? Ok. What are you doing with them?"
Anyway, are moms the CEOs?
Well, however it is in your household, here's something you can listen to when you're next taking out the trash or doing the dishes.
It's my newest podcast episode.
My guest and I talk about how mothers are leaders, just like the CEOs of the world.
It's a great episode, very illuminating!
Listen on iTunes or on my "You're Doing Great Mom" website.
Be sure to subscribe and write a review! I'd be very grateful!
— Dr MaryAnne